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Thursday, April 21, 2016

LOVE IS NOT A FEELING


Ever heard that sentence ‘Everything was so perfect in the beginning.’?
  In the beginning everything is very rosy. You meet this person and stars erupt, this person becomes a mystery. The way they smile, laugh, tilt their hair is very exciting to you. You get butterflies in your tummy and when they hold your hand, the chemistry is amazing. You go on days, hang outs and it’s all pretty amazing. You wish it will never end. Something is wrong here that you will hate later, in this few weeks of euphoria you call love which is just the in love state you haven’t noticed certain characters about this person. You see it but your euphoria covers it up.
  Few months into the relationship, the real character which by the way was never hidden from you but you only needed time to see starts showing up.  Now you

Friday, April 15, 2016

YOU ARE NOT WORTH IT


    I was with a friend who uttered the words ‘Frances, nobody is worth it.’ I looked at this my friend that I had tried to show ‘you are loved and worth it ‘on various occasions as the flawed being that I was and my spirit was silent. What I really heard from those words was ‘Frances, I am not worth it.’
    If you think no one is worth it then you’re indirectly trying to say that you don’t think you are worth it. I felt sadness and pity for my friend. That’s a dangerous way to live. My friend like many other people right from childhood had been unlucky with love and guys. Yes, we all fail at one thing or the other over and over but it’s how you let it handle you that matters. How could my friend let the devil win? Was all I could think.  You’ve been battered and bruised; your heart stomped on over and over so that makes you

Friday, April 8, 2016

IN WHOM DO YOU TRUST?

Trust is a very important word to all humans.  According to my Britannica, TRUST is;

1 a: assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something b: one in which confidence is placed.

  Most humans spend their whole lives searching for someone they can trust be it a life partner, business partner, friends etc. We all look for someone we can be ourselves with, share our dirtiest secrets and all and know that it’s safe with them and that they’d still want us after knowing our deepest secrets.

  Asides keeping secrets,

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    I was with a friend who uttered the words ‘Frances, nobody is worth it.’ I looked at this my friend that I had tried to show ‘you ar...